Monday, September 29, 2008

Tribute to my boyfriend

This past weekend, my "boyfriend" Paul Newman passed away. Although a beautiful man, a talented actor, but most importantly, a generous philanthropist.

Sunday, September 21, 2008

random thoughts and quotes on peace




Peace is not merely a distant goal that we seek, but a means by which we arrive at that goal.
- Martin Luther King Jr
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"Peace is not something you wish for; It's something you make, Something you do, Something you are, And something you give away.
- Robert Fulghum

I have been thinking a lot about peace this year. Even though my year theme is the prayer of St. Francis "Lord, make me an instrument of your peace", I am still amazed how often peace comes up in conversations, movies and books. During the past few months, I realized I am both a realist and an idealist when it comes to peace. The track record of humanity is not encouraging when it comes to world peace. And since past behaviour often indicates future patterns, it is easy to give up hope. I understand that humanity as a whole may never have peace but yet, I have hope because each day, every person has the ability to choose peace. And each day, there are people that choose to live in peace with their neighbours...efforts are made towards peace.

In Israel and Palestine, there is a grief support group made up of mothers from both sides who have lost sons in the conflict. They come together as mothers not as Israelis or Palestinians.

In Somalia, during the 1993 war and famine, while the country fell into anarchy, one man collected orphans from the feeding centres. He educated, fed and protected them because he saw them as seeds of hope for a peaceful future. To date, he has taken care of 10,000 children.

In Rwanda, during the genocide, while neighbours killed each other, some stepped up and hid their friends from the killing squads.

In Canada, after his son was gunned down in the school hallways, a father forgave his son's killer and that act of peace has done more than bitterness ever could.

Even today, on the International Day of Peace, the Taliban and NATO agreed to hold a one-day ceasefire. Anything is possible.

Logically, I don't know if world peace is possible when humanity as a whole is left to it's own devices. But I do know that each day, I have a choice to live in peace with my neighbours, my self and my God. The golden rule, found in most religions, holds a key to peace. By treating others how we would like to be treated allows everyone to be equal. No one life is more valuable than an other life. Our nationality, ethnicity, income, religion, health or education does not equate a higher worth. We are all God's children and when one of us dies, God's heart weeps as should ours.

Peace is an individual journey we all must take. A benediction to close...

Love God
Love Others
Do it with all your heart
Go in peace
Amen



Monday, September 15, 2008

loaf and jug and stuff




It is a sad day in my community. The Loaf and Jug corner store has closed for reasons unknown. Where am I going to go to buy a litre of milk when I am in need? Of course, that litre of milk cost me $4.25 but it was the price of convenience. I bought my weekend newspaper at this store. Now I have to walk 2 extra blocks to the Esso. My life will never be the same again.

Ode to the Loaf & Jug.
You served the neighbourhood well.
You will be missed.





In other news...

...it is my mom's birthday and I love her so very much. She endures my theories, encourages my ramblings and loves me unconditionally. Happy birthday, Marilyn "Martha Stewart"...you have influenced and molded me more than you will ever know.

(my mom & cordelia - two of my favs)


...I forgot a movie on my list last week...The Diving Bell & the Butterfly. I just don't know what movie to take off to keep the list at an even 100.




...I read a book that made me angry, made me weep, and made my heartbreak with the inhumanity of people. "An Imperfect Offering" by James Orbiniski talks abouts MSF (Doctors without Borders) work in the most dreadful places in the world. He discusses the role of humanitarian organizations in the 21st century...it is controversial, it is infuriating but most of all, it reminded me of my own humanity - how every time I interact with another human, I have a choice on how I view and treat them. Are they my equal? Do I treat them with dignity and respect? Do I love?




...Just a reminder that next Sunday is the International Day of Peace - September 21st. Do something to bring peace to your world. Forgive a grudge, tell someone you love them, help a friend in need, protest the war. If you need inspiration, check out the Peace One Day website.

Monday, September 8, 2008

Ode to my family of list lovers

This summer, while out on the island visiting family, we discussed our top movies and whether or not we could come up with a list of our 100 top movies. We also wondered how many movies we have seen in our lifetime and realized that we had spent a great deal of time watching movies, going to movies, renting movies, choosing movies - especially since I didn't watch movies much before I was 16.
Anyhow, we sat around a pint or two of beer and scrawled our lists down on whatever paper I had in my bag - John, Nicole, Wendy & I - all lovers of the list. Nicole, my sister, blogged about it a while back and recently, she asked about my list and whether or not I had finalized it...so for you, Nicole, here is my top 100 movie list (in alphabetical order, of course):
A Room with a View
About a Boy
Almost Famous
Amelie
Annie Hall
Becoming Jane
Before Sunrise
Before Sunset
Bella
Bend it Like Beckham
Blood Diamond
Bobby
Braveheart
Breakfast at Tiffany's
Breakfast Club
Bridget Jones Diary
Bruce Almighty
Butch Cassidy & the Sundance Kid
Casablanca
Cat on a Hot Tin Roof
Chocolat
Cinema Paradiso
Clueless
Cool Hand Luke
Crash
Dave
Dead Man Walking
Dead Poets Society
Dear Frankie
Emma
Finding Nemo
Finding Neverland
Forrest Gump
Godfather I
Good Morning Vietnam
Grace is Gone
High Fidelity
Hope Floats
Hotel Rwanda
Il Postino
Into the Wild
It’s a Wonderful Life
Juno
Lars & the Real Girl
Lean on Me
Life is Beautiful
Little Miss Sunshine
Lord of the Rings
Love Actually
Memento
Moonstruck
Much Ado About Nothing
My Fair Lady
O Brother Where art Thou?
Once
Paris Je T'aime
Philedelphia
Philedelphia Story
Power of One
Pride & Prejudice (Colin Firth)
Princess Bride
Ray
Rebel Without a Cause
Roman Holiday
Romeo & Juliet (Baz Luhrmann)
Rudy
Run Lola Run
Sabrina (Audrey Hepburn)
Saved
Saving Private Ryan
Say Anything…
Scent of a Woman
Schindlers List
Sense & Sensibility
Shadowlands
Shall We Dance (Japan)
Shawshank Redemption
Sliding Doors
Stranger Than Fiction
Strictly Ballroom
Swingers
The Apostle
The Castle
The Commitments
The Constant Gardener
The English Patient
The Graduate
The Last King of Scotland
The Pianist
The Shop Around the Corner
The Sixth Sense
The Truman Show
The Usual Suspects
The Whale Rider
Thelma & Louise
To Kill a Mockingbird
Waitress
Walk the Line
What's Eating Gilbert Grape?
When Harry met Sally